Welcome to the return of This Life,

a short column reflecting on life...

SUNDAY, SUNDAY

18th April, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  abcdz2000 (www.sxc.hu)

Sitting in the church are people who believe in and follow Jesus Christ. Some are casual Christians, but most are committed and dedicated to Jesus Christ and His cause on the earth.

     Christians go to church to worship God and to be encouraged in the faith, by the preaching of the Word of God. They also attend to spiritually connected with God. During the church service, the Holy Spirit is observed by his activity in and effect on the people (John 3 :8). Going to church is clearly important - especially as we face many spiritual trials, persecutions and much doctrinal questions daily (Hebrews 10: 25). You do not go to church to be unmoved or indifferent. You do not go to church to remain dormant and bored or just to hear about paying in money. And you certainly do not go to church to remain silent in songs of praise and worship.

     Christian maturity involves time and growth in the knowledge of the Word of God and experience in the use of the Word in discerning between good and evil. But you do not have to know the whole Bible before sharing your faith with another. The church helps train your spiritual perceptions (Hebrews 5: 12-14), and helps you take your place and play your part in spreading the good news (Matthew 28: 19-20).

     May your church experience be inspiring and interesting; insightful and simple; unpredictable and may it be fresh. May your church experience enable you to connect with the divine in a way that touches your being and stirs your inner resolve, to serve the Lord in whatever way you can. May the preaching of the word of God at the church you attend or visit be with power and revelation. May the delivered message set you free of condemnation; empower you to perceive, enable you to recognise and understand who God is, and what God’s plans are for you- as a believer living in a material world.

     God gave the church (and you) the responsibility of turning people to Jesus Christ; so that all people can become God’s children (Mark 16: 15). You have a special part in God’s plan. You must represent Jesus Christ. You must also strive to become who you are destined to be, in this world. Roll on Sunday. 

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

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MAKEOVER

4th April, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Sarah Lewis (www.sxc.hu)

None of us is perfect. The life of a Christian is one of exciting change and growth. It is a life of progressive makeover of our natures and character. We make a journey where we discover what power, peace and progress there is in Christ. And from our frequent failings and frailties, we learn about the love and mercy of the Lord. 

     Ever noticed how bad thoughts regularly creep into your head, and how your mouth often gets you into regret zones? Have you discovered that you want to do what you know is right, but you can’t, won’t or don’t? (Romans 7: 15). This is because there is an ingrained “drive” in humans for them to rule their own lives, rebel against God, protect and exalt themselves and meet their own needs their way - apart from God. When you receive Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Saviour, the Holy Spirit guides you (Galatians 5: 18) and set you free so that this inbuilt “drive” no longer has authority over you (Romans 6: 6), unless you submit to it (Romans 6: 16).

     We are not born with ready-made personalities. Yes, our genes (DNA) do bring into us certain qualities, but the environments in which we grow and in which we are educated, have a telling impact on our character and our approach to life. When we are born again in Christ (1 Peter 1: 23), the Lord Jesus accepts us without accusation or penalty. He forgives us and (with the help of the Holy Spirit - Romans 8: 26), lets us get on with the business of building godly character into our lives (Galatians 5: 22-23). It takes time (Philippians 2: 12). Little-by-little selfish desires, destructive habits and urges peel them selves off us (Galatians 5: 19-21). Little by little, you grow to be the best you can be, and you increasingly look like the special person God wanted on this earth long before you were born (Jeremiah 1: 5).

     God is proud to present you to the planet from birth. In the journey of your life, He believes in you and who you will become - often when no-one (not even you) believes you are gong to be special. He sees how you exercise your freedom to incur debt, your freedom of speech, movement, choice. He works on the assurance that these external freedoms will be governed by the greatest freedom that you have discovered which is inside you: the truth of Jesus Christ as your Lord and God (John 8: 32; 20: 28). This truth is the true freedom that sets people free - not only from the ingrained “drive” mentioned earlier, but also and more importantly - it sets you free to enjoy a great and fulfilling life in Christ (John 10: 10).  

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

WORK RELATIONSHIPS

29th March, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Luca Baroncini (www.sxc.hu)

You have family, friends, and connections. You are not a hermit. You’re a vibrant person living in a material world, but first and foremost you are a believer in Jesus Christ, and you belong to the family of God (Ephesians 2: 19). The church you attend is an example of the worldwide family of God. It is in this family that you learn and change (Colossians 2: 7) and become yourselves more fully – as God made you to be. Then you boldly go out to interact with a world (Matthew 5: 16) that is made up of a variety of contracts, a web of financial transactions and a network of social contacts (1 John 2: 15). 

    Remember always that you are the gatekeeper of the types of relationships and influences you allow into your life. Work and other pressures can be so subtle; they can slowly downgrade the influence God has in your life to a dry routine or a casual relationship (Matthew 13: 22). Companies and business organisations will want you to buy into and share the firm’s vision and business goals and to have close ties with your team or work mates. Just make sure that you do not sell your soul (Matthew 16: 26) in the process or in your desire to climb the career, business or social ladders. Yes, if you want - gain the promotion or your place in the company, or merit the contract. However, you should not do this by mortgaging your godly values or laying your soul bare to everyone in the workplace, in team building exercises or performance appraisals.

     Of course, there is always the remote possibility that people at work keep away from you because you are generally an irritable and unfriendly person! Hopefully, this is not true in your case (Proverbs 18: 24). At work, some relationships may turn sour because workmates are jealous of the favour you have (Psalms 5: 12). Other relationships may thrive because of your generous heart in helping and sharing your abilities with others. However, there may come a time when you consider walking away from a job because your consistent high performance is not appreciated or rewarded.

     Whatever your job or contract, never forget that you come as a very special package: it’s you and the Lord Jesus that you serve; it’s you as the person He has called you to be; it’s you and the capacity He gives you to deliver high quality achievement, superior productivity and terrific workable ideas (Philippians 4: 13).

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

BETWEEN NOW AND THEN

21st March, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Ancesco Prepilli (www.sxc.hu)

Some people remain inactive, in one place and anxious, waiting for something to happen. Others are ready and do things that contribute to the event they expect and all the while, they watch for signs. God waited thousands of earth years to give His son Jesus to this world (John 3: 16). All the while God was active in the affairs of humankind (Daniel 2: 21), and revealed signs to predict and to countdown (Amos 3: 7) the entrance of Jesus (John 1: 14).

     Whether it takes a moment or month or years from the origin of your waiting to its fulfilment, some very definite things clearly happen between now and then (Habbakuk 2: 3). The origin of your waiting could be the hard work you have put in and now you are waiting for a reward. The origin of your waiting may be a doctor’s diagnosis that sets you praying for a miracle; or a promise waiting for fulfilment. You will experience a flood of thoughts and emotions while you wait for a way out, a way in, or a new way. The time between now and then is a crucial period for you to develop your relationship with God and use the power of a spiritual focus to influence the outcome or the event that you anticipate (Psalms 37: 4-5). God alone has the ultimate power to give you your promised land flowing with milk and honey (Joshua 1: 2).

     Most of us cannot take the waiting between now and then. Either we have not learnt to manage the stress of waiting, or, we have not learnt to see ahead to the result - and draw joy and comfort from it (Hebrews 12: 2). In many cases, both these reasons apply. The answer is to keep in detailed conversation with God between now and then (Isaiah 26: 3). Four main things happen when you are in regular contact with God via prayer, Bible reading and so on. Firstly, your faith in God and his word increases - stress, fear, and fretting will decrease. Secondly, the expected outcome will become clearer to you. Thirdly, you will then know what actions you must take and what actions you must avoid. Fourthly, you will be more prepared to accept God’s perfect timing for your fulfilment and joy. These things are true whether you want a child and cannot fall pregnant, whether you are waiting for a job, or whether you are waiting to buy a house, or waiting for the safe return of someone you love. 

     The period between now and then is a time of faith, because you hope and desire for something good and you expect to obtain it. This is not mere positive thinking. This kind of faith is about relying wholeheartedly on the power of the living God to deliver the desires of your heart - and end your waiting with satisfaction.

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

ENCOURAGEMENT

14th March, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Stephen Eastop (www.sxc.hu)

All of us at some time need a word or hand of encouragement: Well done! Keep it up! Thank you! Let me help you! This inspires us with hope, lifts our spirits, and instils courage to go on. This is the marvel and the value of living among people. As great as this comfort might be, there also come times when the right people either are just not there or are themselves down and demotivated. Perhaps the loneliest place to be is where everyone can hear your groaning but no-one offers comfort.

     It follows that the best source of encouragement must be someone who is close and readily available, sincerely caring with no personal problems, and someone who is not only glad to genuinely encourage but also capable of easily helping you. That person is God the Holy Spirit (John 14: 16-17). Sometimes we walk through valleys as dark as death, but because He is with us we feel safe and we are not afraid (Psalms 23: 4). As we work hard to make a living, God cheers us up in our need, and we do not feel bad any more. When you are sad and discouraged and tossed around in a storm the Lord will restore you (Isaiah 54: 11-14). When you are suffering, you can find comfort in God’s promises, because God’s promises have stood the test of time (Psalms 119: 50, 52). The very Scriptures give us comfort and hope (Romans 15: 4).

     God comforts you when we are in trouble so you can share that same comfort with others who are in trouble (II Corinthians 1: 3­4). Heaven sends positive encouragement that builds positive emotions and helps you to focus your thoughts and regain your motivation (I Kings 19: 4-7). We often look to family or friends for encouragement but their comfort sometimes not only fails, it ends up making you feel worse – like the comforters of Job (Job 12). Perhaps this is why some who are hurting so deeply and in need of encouragement do not want to be comforted. Therefore, you have every good reason to make God your first call for encouragement. It is important for you to remember as well, that whether you are giving or receiving encouragement – the best encouragement is always inspired and not careless (Isaiah 50: 4).

     Encouragement is not only for valley periods (Luke 22: 43) but also for when a person is doing well (Matthew 3: 16-17). Just be alert to the prompting of the Holy Spirit and the spoken or silent signals that people around you send all the time. Sow sincere encouragement wherever you see the opportunity; and you will reap encouragement (Galatians 6: 7) when you need a word in season and a tonic for your soul.

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

THINK AGAIN

7th March, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Zoran Ozetsky (www.sxc.hu)

Sadly, we miss many blessings because we do not have the patience to keep trying (Hebrews 6: 12) or we too hastily turn our thoughts to something or someone else. You may feel that there is too slim a prospect for your success so why think again. You may rashly conclude that the matter is not important to your life so why think again. You then walk away, or loose heart or disconnect (Psalms 27 :14). For a variety of reasons, we often do not think again, either about previous decisions we made, or about the final choice in a present situation; and we end up with second best, regret, or we loose a winning battle. This sort of ending, is the very opposite to God’s plans for you (Jeremiah 29: 11).

     God Himself reconsiders the penalty which your history or behaviours rightly deserves (Isaiah 1: 18). He does this because He does not want you to suffer (II Kings 20: 1-6). It is God’s desire that you benefit from the good things you have longed for and which God has reserved for you. Many of us do not pause to reconsider the situation, to see if we should change our minds or intentions (Luke 18: 1-5). The continual plea to you from your future is that you avoid actions that may result in regret. Your destiny relies on you to make up if you can, for past failures. Your destiny calls to you to live up to the promise of a great life (Genesis 22: 16-18).

     It may be that you are still undecided or have had no clear direction, even after praying about a situation. Then pray again, differently this time round (Matthew 6: 7). Prayer is an act of faith and therefore gives you access to a power that is higher than human reason (Romans 8 :6). God can open your mind to different facets of a (past or) present situation (Ephesians 1: 17, 18), which you did not see when you first prayed and formed a view.

     It may be that after you reconsidered your decision, you feel satisfied to proceed without changing your posture. This is fine - if you arrived at the decision after praying about the matter. Confining your decision to your thoughts alone robs you of the wisdom that is readily available from God (James 1: 5). Pray then think; pray again and think again (Philippians 4: 6-8). The practice may take a moment or a month but it can make the difference between success and failure (Isaiah 30: 21).

     Think again and change your ways if you are unhappy with your self or the world in general. Think again and change your mind if you feel you have nothing or little to offer the world. Think again and change your heart if you are about to abandon the dream that God has placed within you.  

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

PRIVATE PAIN

28th February, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Dez Pain (www.sxc.hu)

When you have personal victory in any situation, your spirit lifts and you feel good about yourself and about nearly everyone around you (Proverbs 15: 15). When you have private pain, you need the time and the space to cope and work through the inner anguish. You want time and space to overcome the weariness, the pressure, and the thing that afflicts your inner tranquillity. The last thing you need is to have as much privacy as a goldfish in a glass bowl. Conveniently, people who cause the pain or should be defending or supporting you – often keep their distance (John 18: 26-27). This frequently turns out to be a blessing because you might prefer to be on your own with your secret tears, heavy heart and lonely nights (Mark 14: 34).

     Many people have lost everything, but they hold on to hope and never let go of God. These people invariably go on to rise from the ashes and reach heights that surpass their previous best (Job 42: 10-12). It is easy to become downcast and depressed when you are going through a valley. It is easy to be unbearable to those around you - and not even know it. When you bear private pain, it might feel like you have failed the people you care about or failed your own aims and dreams. No matter what the cause of your private pain, God is still on his throne. This world has not ended - neither has yours! Amid the pain and maybe the agony of a setback, you have to get on with your life (Luke 15: 17-18).

     You may be one of millions who puts on a brave front and suffers quietly on the inside, sometimes for years. Private pain is a real thing but you must not allow it to overtake or swallow you. When you are down in the dumps, it takes more than a decision or a wish to get out. You must make up your mind to move from the place of private pain to a state of balance, new hope, and peace. It takes will and power. You must have the will and God will provide His power - for you to get up and get on with your life (Psalms 18: 30-32). Ask God to rescue you from a broken heart, discouragement, rejection, betrayal, or defeat (Psalms 34: 19). Trust God to heal the dents and wounds which private pain inflicts on your confidence and self worth.

     Remember, God is with you in the valley (Psalm 23 :4). He may not answer your prayer in a way you want, but He will answer. God will return or replace what you have lost (Joel 2: 25). A new highway of better prospects may replace a bridge that shattered under your feet. His strength will enable you to bear the pain (II Corinthians 12: 9). Joy does eventually come. You will rise again, bearing some scars maybe, but certainly wiser and stronger and ready for a better day.   

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

LOOK AT ME NOW

21st February, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Ania S. (www.sxc.hu)

The changes in our physical looks are easier to trace than the changes age embeds in our minds (I Corinthians 13: 11). It’s when you share your thoughts, feelings and when people notice your behaviour they see more of what you look like, and who you are (Matthew 15: 18). Do you remember photos in which you featured when you were a toddler or in your teenage years? Look at you now; you have changed - on the outside and on the inside.

     God does not look at the outside but looks on the inside at your thoughts, feelings, words and actions (I Samuel 16: 7). We must embrace this even if it might sometimes be awkward, because it allows you to be true to God and true to yourself. In this deal of openness and honesty, God will gently help you to think the way he thinks (I Corinthians 2: 16), to have a heartfelt personal devotion and attachment to Jesus Christ (Galatians 5: 6), and to speak and act wisely (Proverbs 14: 15). This gentle help comes mainly as you have regular private conversations with Him and read the Bible. Gradually, what you look like on the inside will become more important and valuable to you than what you look like on the outside (I John 4: 4). The power in this change is that you begin to grow in influence because people will look at you now and will see what you stand for, and hear you say so boldly (Daniel 1: 19-20).

     Look at me now is not an arrogant brag but a personal statement of gratitude to God - things could have turned out badly if it were not for God’s love and quiet, constant help. As you and God work on you, steadily refining your profile, more insight enters your life and you get a good reputation for appropriate behavior (Proverbs 3: 4). People too will be more inclined to help and be kind to you.  Before you know it, people will look at you or read your name and see a person they accept and welcome - and often they do not fully know why they do. This is because you are growing in favour with God (Psalms 5: 12; Luke 2: 52) and in harmony with His plan to give you peace and well-being, all of your life (Psalms 30: 5).

     Look at me now could be the cry of someone who has known better days or who has had a setback; or is stuck in a rut, hurt, or ill (Job 3: 1,25). This sad place can be a cave for the smart as well as the not so smart, for the humble as well as the proud. The fact that there are millions all over the world in similar or worse plights is true but of little help. The most important point is that God sees and hears you. Jesus is with you! Because of that, you do not have to give up or give in - you need not fear (Psalms 23: 4). The amazing thing about calling out to God from a deep, dark slippery hole is that He either sends strangers to rescue you (Genesis 37: 28), or He gives you a bright idea (almost like a divine ladder on which) to climb out. Through God, you will bounce back; you can recover. When you do, you would have changed for the better (Genesis 28: 12; 32: 28). Then it’s God who will say, “Look at you now!”

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

REALITY

12th February, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  www.sxc.hu

You should not give up on who you want to become or what you want to achieve (Matthew 24: 13). It may be tough now, but tough will not last forever. God will help you through this time (Matthew 28: 20). If things are easy now, all the more reason to move ahead with your vision, your ambition, your dream. Your future is more important than what ever your present reality looks like (Hebrews 12:2).

     Your reality may lead you to feel that you are not worthy of so high or humble an ambition. You may feel that you do not have the influence, power, or energy to achieve your goals (Luke 1: 29, 34). Right now, you may be facing problems (financial, health, relationship) that keep you from getting where you hope to be.

     If any of these everyday realities applies to you then at least you have begun to see what you need to do - to move you closer to what you want and where you should be. You may need to make small personal changes to the way you think, or the way you behave or the way you are living your life - only you and God know exactly what those changes must be (Luke 5:1-11). What Satan knows is that hell rejoices when someone abandons the dream that God placed in his or her heart, and never becomes the person God destined him or her to be.

     No matter how grand or humble it may be, the joy is in living the vision and seeing it happen (Matthew 12: 28). For a humble maiden called Mary, her destiny was to be the mother of a baby boy called Jesus. Martin Cooper’s destiny was to invent the mobile cell phone. Berners-Lee had a vision to spread ideas and information and he invented the internet. John Logie Baird was destined to invent television. Among his many inventions, James Russell was born to invent the digital compact disc – the CD. Today, naturally invisible waves and impulses bear witness to the living Lord Jesus all over the world all the time (Matthew 24: 14). Never underestimate how your life connects over history, what your life can add to history and how you are a factor in the cause of Christ (Luke 23: 26; Esther 4: 14-16).

     Therefore, your future beckons you. Learn and understand that achievement and destiny is a contract between you and God (Acts 9: 15-16; II Timothy 4: 7), and what you achieve may or may not be for the eyes of the whole wide world (Mark 9: 41). So do not allow your present realities to bind or blind you. For His part, God will guide, encourage, and work behind the scenes of your present reality, so that as a believer in Jesus Christ, you have the will and courage to make those small personal changes that will shape you to reach your destiny (II Corinthians 12: 9-10).

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

EASY AND INSTANT

7th February, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  Hugo Humberto Plácido da Silva (www.sxc.hu)

Wouldn’t it be nice if nothing in life was difficult and if we could obtain whatever we need immediately and without great effort? Nothing is wrong with wishful thinking; it’s just that the best brains in the world have not yet come up with easy and instant ways around natural or most time-bound things. Trees still take time to grow, a substantial career or business still takes time to develop, normal pregnancy still lasts nine months.

     On a spiritual level, receiving Jesus Christ as Saviour and Lord; having Jesus to forgive your past sin; initiating you into the Holy Spirit; admitting you into the church by immersion in water; you reading the Bible - these precious and genuine things are easy and take place in an instant. God will also hear your prayers in an instant (I John 5: 14), although He may not always answer instantly or in predictable ways (II Corinthians 12: 9; Luke 22: 42). Yet He can be trusted to come through in a manner that’s best for you - and He does! (Psalm 18: 30). This spiritual connection with Jesus Christ (John 15: 7); will lead you into an amazing journey of discovery. You’ll learn to trust an all mighty invisible person and you’ll finally accept as true, that you are greater than you have ever recognised.

     Of the many good qualities in today’s generation, their greatest quality is their preference for authoritative spiritual truth. They are willing to trust the genuine teachings and living example of the Lord Jesus Christ. This also means that they are willing to disconnect their appetite for the easy and instant, if they can actively participate in the spiritual, the progressive and the genuine. Only Jesus Christ offers such creative involvement! No matter what your age, following Jesus is the ultimate journey (John 14: 6) and the single most important relationship in your life (John 15: 5). If you are willing to live your life His way (Galatians 2: 20) then the highest good (I Timothy 6: 6) can fill the rest of your years.

     Over the ages God has seen many generations of young and old alike (Psalm 102: 24). He isn’t put off by, or wary of people who demand the easy and instant in life (Luke 15: 12-13). Actually, He wants His followers to enjoy great fulfilment, peace and joy during their lifetimes (John 10: 10). This worthwhile and genuine life is attained and sustained through Christ and often requires some sort of effort and patience on your part (I Corinthians 9: 24). In this context and these truths, easy and instant obviously has its place, because God suddenly and frequently without you even asking (James 1: 17), will do great and essential things for you. He will even reshape destiny in answer to your prayers (II Kings 20: 2-6).

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

TODAY, TOMORROW

31st January, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE:  www.sxc.hu

As for yesterday, it’s gone. While it was here you did things for which you said sorry, made amends, and moved on to today. Yesterday also allowed you to receive God’s promises and anticipate today, and gave you opportunities (which hopefully) you seized. If you were lazy yesterday, then today is what you have. Today offers you brand new prospects of catching up and lining up your plans with God’s great plans for your life (Psalm 20: 4 (AMP); Jeremiah 29: 11).

     You don’t know exactly what’s going to happen tomorrow (Luke 12: 19-20, James 4: 14); yet it holds the promise to take you closer to your hopes and dreams, imaginations and desires. That’s what is so exciting about tomorrow; you hope for something you have not yet seen, and you patiently wait for it (Romans 8: 24-25).

     It is in your best interest not to treat waiting as an unproductive state of unconsciousness; it is the period in which you must prepare and equip yourself (Matthew 25: 4-10), and to be ready for your blessed future to unfold (Hebrews 6:11-12). As to patience, there would be no need for patience if you could single-handedly deliver on your hopes and dreams (Matthew 19: 26). However, where your future depends on God’s promises you might have to accept God’s higher view of the perfect timing, for your fulfilment (James 1: 4, 17; Psalm 18: 30; Habbakuk 2: 3).

     He is the source of yesterday’s promise and tomorrow’s fulfilment. You have a new nature and your spiritual mind must think the thoughts of God (I Corinthians 2: 11-13). Thus, you will view today and tomorrow the way He sees your present and future: full of promise and fulfilment (I Kings 18: 44). Today may appear heavier than a person can bear and tomorrow may be threatening to raise more problems than most people can handle (Psalm 34: 19). The crucial truth for you to remember and to get into your being is that the presence of Jesus is with you (Matthew 28: 20). Long after the pressures and problems have disappeared (Psalm 30: 5); and long after one triumph has been replaced by another, Jesus Christ will still be standing with you (Hebrews 13: 8). And so The Lord turns your today into a better day and fills your tomorrows with hope and success.

     If you’re reading this and you want Jesus Christ as your constant friend and Lord, then don’t put off till tomorrow, what you must do today. Just audibly say, “Jesus Christ, I believe in you. From today I want you to come into my heart and live within me.” Then talk to a Christian you know for further information.

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

MAKING SENSE OF DISAGREEMENTS

24th January, 2010

MIKE ABEL

PICTURE: Andrew Hildebrand (www.sxc.hu)

When Jesus unveiled His new doctrine (John 7: 16), the Jews murmured (John 6: 41) and many of His disciples “walked no more with Him” – they left Him (John 6: 66). For Jesus, the declaration of His purpose was something more important and more valuable than the departure of many disciples. Paul, the apostle, disagreed strongly with Barnabas and refused to let Mark accompany them on their missionary journey. Mark had previously deserted them and had not shared in their work (Acts 15: 36-40).

     For Paul, there was something more important and more valuable than to risk another desertion by Mark. The prophet Amos asks a question that is relevant in these disagreements: “Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?” (Amos 3: 3). The Apostle Peter recounts how spiritually ignorant and unstable people couldn’t understand or accept the insights in Paul’s letters; so they twisted what he said (II Peter 3: 15-16 CEV). Paul knew that he could not change his message no matter what the persecution (II Corinthians 4: 9) or the distortion of his teachings by his opponents. There was too much at stake for the Kingdom (Acts 9: 15-16), to worry about the attacks (I Samuel 17: 47).    

     A disagreement is where people have differences of opinions or actions. Disagreements arise even between the union of a husband and wife, and between children. Generally, disagreements are not evil, but they become evil when they fester (Ephesians 4: 26). The worst kinds of disagreements are those kept secretly in the heart (Acts 5: 3), like Judas against Jesus; like Delilah against Samson and like Haman against the Jews. The quiet festering creates a climate for evil to enter and fill the heart with betrayal and treachery (Acts 5: 3). The mouth then releases into the wind feathers of resentment and malice. Jesus our Lord foretold that this would happen in the church and in families (Matthew 10: 21-23). Satan always destroys his agents after they do his dirty work. Judas killed himself. Haman was hung. Desolation and death come suddenly upon them (Psalms 55: 15). It’s sad and weird that in order to betray someone you must first belong to their circle (Job19:15), and must have shared some happy and profitable times together (Psalm 55: 13, 15, 20)!

     So, disagreements are part of life. They are best resolved by open discussion, or an open acceptance by the parties that they disagree. The one party either submits to the authority of the other (I Peter 3: 1 Ephesians 6: 1; Hebrews 13:17), or they adopt different directions relative to the issue. There is always room for reconciliation. Mark and Paul had overcome the difference that caused their earlier separation (II Timothy 4: 11). If you’ve been a victim in a disagreement, do your best to avoid bitterness in your heart. Bitterness torments, defiles and contaminates (Hebrews 12: 15). Let the experience of the disagreement teach you about others and about yourself.  What matters is that you stay the better person in the eyes of God. God always defends the just!  

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

A GOOD MOOD

17th January, 2010

MIKE ABEL

It may be difficult to fix a material problem immediately or reverse a problem at work. Sometimes it’s hard to take back words spoken in haste or reverse short sighted actions. These are practicalities. But the victory in any situation is not so much the practicalities but your approach and attitude to them.

     It is easy to make out people who are in a good mood; they say positive things, are full of energy, they have a sense of well being and they are friendly. This is not to say that people don’t experience sorrow or hard times. Ever noticed that the poor have a hard life yet they are more content in their poverty than people who have more than the poor? What’s your mood right now? If you are cheerful you feel good; if you are sad you hurt all over – it’s like your bones dry up (Proverbs 17: 22). You become sullenly aloof and withdrawn. Happiness makes you smile (Proverbs 15: 13). If you’re in a sad and lonely place (for whatever reason), don’t let it be your permanent residence (Psalms 30: 5). “If you knew the anguish I’m in and if you know what caused this sadness then you’d see why I’m glum and disconnected”. The reasons don’t matter as much as the cure. Do you want to snap out of the melancholy?

     Have you considered that the devil rejoices when he can use others against you? Did you know as well that he can negatively influence your own thoughts, emotions and actions (2 Timothy 2: 23-26; Matthew 16: 23)? Yes, a true believer is indwelt by the Holy Spirit and can not be demon possessed (2 Corinthians 6: 15-16); but if you follow strange voices or the voices of trouble makers (2 Corinthians 11: 3, 14), rather than cling to the voice of the Holy Spirit, then the devil gets a foothold, an opportunity to influence you into problems and despair. Surrender to God, rebuke, reject and resist the devil and he will flee from you (James 4: 7). Then just make sure you don’t fall into the same snare again. Be on guard in future (1 Peter 5: 8).

     A bad mood can also lift if you can go and say sorry or ask for leniency or write a note requesting an apology from the person who has offended you. If you’re in a foul mood because you’re feeling tired and worn out, call on the Lord to bring you new life and energy while you sleep so that you awake refreshed (Jeremiah 31: 25) and full of hope and faith and love ( 1 Corinthians 13: 13). Another way out of a dark mood is to pray and praise and give thanks to God. Yes it’s hard especially when you’re feeling down – to pray and praise and give thanks. That’s exactly why it’s a sacrifice that God will accept and respond to (Acts 16: 22-27). You will then feel the comfort of the Holy Spirit. In place of your tears God will give you joy. Your heart will feel happy again (Isaiah 61 :3).  When you’re in a good mood, you’ll feel so much better to handle things. People around you will also feel so much better. And you’ll be a better reflection of Jesus. 

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

NAAMAN'S LICENCE

7th January, 2010

MIKE ABEL

Naaman, who had just been converted to believe in the only true God, received a licence from Elisha the Prophet of the Lord to regularly accompany the Syrian King into the temple of the heathen god Rimmon (2 Kings 5: 14-19). God gave Daniel a licence to be the vice president in heathen Babylon. Joseph had a licence to be the prime minister in heathen Egypt. From her very birth, God had preserved a licence for Esther to become queen of the heathen Persia (Esther 4: 14). It will be licences like these that will make our children the captains of industry, fashion, entertainment and the media and so on, in the midst of heathen majorities.

      Your licence allows you to go wisely, where you can force darkness to make way for the light you carry. Your licence lets you be among worldly people and places. The apostle Paul used his licence to mix with the Romans, Greeks and Jews so that he might bring them to Christ (1 Corinthians 9: 22-23). He did so with Godís presence and Christ’s command (Matthew 28: 18 and Mark 16: 15). People inside and outside the church may not understand how you openly mix with the world and apparently ignore traditional church customs and restrictions. The Pharisees even judged and condemned Jesus for openly plucking and eating corn on the Sabbath, and Jesus Himself was condemned for openly healing an infirm woman on the Sabbath (Matthew 12 and Luke 13).

      In their day, John the Baptist and Jesus Himself had their share of attacks. The critics condemned John as a demon. They judged and condemned Jesus as a glutton and a drunkard and a friend of the worst sort of sinners (Matthew 11: 18-19). Some people judge and condemn because they do not have all the facts. It could be that they have deep-seated malice against you. Some critics have traditional ideas of what “being in this world yet not of this world” is all about. When you exercise your licence and do what you were born to do, keep a good heart attitude and let God be the ultimate judge of your critics.

      Like Jesus, the very author of our faith, you too can expand your circles beyond only ‘church’ people. Like Paul the foremost pioneer of our beliefs, you can be proud to serve the Lord in unusual places and among all types of people. You can go where sinners are and there, find people to whom you can minister and whom you can lead to Christ. Only those who dare, make a difference in the world. To make a difference in a sinful world you have to go into it. That is the licence you have. Use it.

Based in Durban, South Africa, Mike Abel is the founder and senior pastor of the Oasis of the Lord Family of International Churches and author of the book, Prayers That God Hears.

CALLING FOR BARNABAS

3rd April, 2007

CHRISSI ELLANKOON

While there is no book devoted to him and we don’t hear him being preached from the pulpit all too often, the influence and effect of Barnabas’ ministry can be seen all the through the book of Acts and much of Paul’s writing.

      Barnabas, or as he was affectionately known as, Joes or son of encouragement was himself a member of the Levite priesthood, however he is not known for powerful teaching or miracles. His ministry was not one that had a place of prominence, however it was one of the up-most importance.

      What was the great ministry that Barnabas had to offer? He had the gift of encouragement, he knew how to draw out the best in people and encourage them to achieve all God had for them. Two of the people that he influenced greatly was Paul and John Mark. Both of these had important missionary journey’s, both of these men had a task to fulfill that was imperative for the spreading of the Gospel. While both these men were strong in the Lord, they both needed encouragement.

      The apostle Paul was a man of great strength, there was so much that he overcame for the sake of the gospel. It is hard to believe that even he needed encouragement. To me this highlights an important principle, that while we are in pursuit of God’s work we too may need some encouragement from time to time and there will be people who require our encouragement.

      Looking at the world today, we have learnt so quickly how to remind both ourselves and others of our mistakes. It is amazing how much we remember our past blunders, it is almost a cure for amnesia. While you not remember your childhood in any great detail, I can guarantee you that you will remember all the times you made errors and mistakes. This especially comes back to haunt you when you try to step out to do anything new. This is where the ministry of Barnabas is so important. As Christians we need to provide that counteracting voice, the one that reminds people that although you have made mistakes in the past you can still achieve your dreams.

      I often wonder whether Paul was sometimes haunted by his past. I wonder whether in the dark of the night his thoughts turned to the life he had before he knew Jesus, I wonder whether the face of Stephen and others like him returned to remind him of his past. I wonder if that is why the ministry of Barnabas was so important to Paul?

      We all need a Barnabas in our lives, we need to know that there is someone spurring us on and cheering for us on the side lines. We all need a hand to give us a pat on the back when we achieve and a hand to help us up when we fall. That hand needs to be provided by the Church. In a world that is so competitive and self driven, we can never expect the son of encouragement to emerge from there. While the world cries out our mistakes and reminds us of our failures, it is the sons of encouragement who will spur their brothers and sisters of Christ on to achieve all that God has set up for them.

      We have a responsibility as Christians to encourage our brothers and sisters, not to sit in judgement of them, there is only one who can do that job. No, we are called to remind eachother of the mercy and grace of Jesus Christ, we are called to encourage all those in the faith. We are called to be set apart and different by the fact that we choose not to judge the world but to encourage all to do what we can to make it a better place.

      For far to long the sons of encouragement have sat silent, they have believed that their ministry lacked importance. This is a call to Barnabas, you ARE NEEDED !! Do not sit silent, because as long as you do the voice of the world screams louder and louder draining the confidence of the children of God. Regardless

P IS FOR PERSEVERANCE

12th March, 2007

CHRISSI ELLANKOON

If I had a book of dirty Christian words, P would be for perseverance. Whenever I hear that word I cringe because I know all the connotations it brings. Living in a society of instant fixes and instant results, perseverance is slowly getting squeezed out of our character. In the world where nothing is made to last, we are asked nothing more than to give something a go and if it doesn't work or you don't like it, you are free to move on. It almost seems that there is no place for perseverance or that perseverance is somehow becoming redundant, or is it?

      In James 1:4 we are asked to consider it pure joy when going through trials and temptations because it is through the testing of our faith that develops perseverance. Verse four was a particular revelation for me - "Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything". Perseverance is not just a good idea, but also a Biblical principle. As Christians therefore we have a responsibility to ensure that perseverance does not disappear from the men and women of today or the children of tomorrow. We have a responsibility to ensure that perseverance does not succumb to its redundant fate.

      As James points out, perseverance must finish its work. This is not an optional extra! James offers us no other option if we are to become mature and complete. Once the excitement of a new project has worn off, what drives us to finish it? When the honeymoon is over and you have each gained a few extra kilos and a large mortgage, what keeps our marriages together? James calls us as Christians to finish what we start, he calls us to good old-fashioned stick-ability. What James highlights is that if perseverance does not finish the work, then what does?

      What I am seeing more and more on my journey is that as people abandon perseverance the work is not being finished. Deadlines are not being met, marriages are not lasting, renovations aren't being completed, and books remain unfinished. But what is perseverance, what is this essential trait that spurs us onto maturity and completeness?

    Well, if perseverance were a woman, she would be the one sitting in the corner of the office. Easy to miss at first, there is nothing to draw attention to her except the contentment on her face as she goes about her work. She is not loud or flashy but if you ask her boss, she is spoken of highly. Words such as dependable, reliable is what she is noted for. Her boss points out the asset she is to the company because she will always get the job done, and on time.

      Perseverance is a loving wife as well. Thirty years into the marriage she is still looking for ways to be a blessing to her husband and show him that he is loved. She has stood firm and guarded her marriage, she has settled disagreements quickly so they have had no time to fester and take root. Perseverance does life with her husband day by day, investing into their relationship.

      Perseverance is a mother who lovingly walks the journey with her children. She endlessly encourages them in their pursuits and is there with compassion and support when they encounter disappointment. She can't recall how many times she has heard her son play that piece of music on the piano. She can't count the number of times she has driven her daughter to netball and cheered from the sidelines, however perseverance will tell you that she will continue to support, encourage and teach her children for the rest of her life.

      Perseverance is also the astute businesswoman, she has taken some big risks and had a couple of losses. Perseverance however cannot be held down for long. With each loss she assesses her learnings, picks up and starts again. She is not afraid of hard work, she remains determined to see her dreams come true.

      Perseverance is an athlete. She trains hard and is consistent. Whether rain, hail or shine you will find her running the oval or training in the gym. With all her preparation, on the day she falls, there is no chance that she can win now, but perseverance is resolute and will complete the race she started.

      Perseverance is you and I, each time we choose to rise above our circumstances and finish what we start we choose to persevere. When we feel unappreciated or just plain worn out, we keep going because we understand that perseverance must finish its work. As Christians, let us be determined and resolute, let our lives reflect perseverance so that we can become mature, complete and lacking nothing. Let us be ambassadors for perseverance rather than its harshest critic.

CHILD OF GOD

26th February, 2007

KATHIE THOMAS

"It's 'show and tell' this week, mummy, and it's about 'craft'. What am I going to do? I'm not good at anything! The kids are going to laugh at me".

      I sighed. We'd been down this path before and I needed my daughter to understand that she didn't have to be like everyone else. That she is who she is, a child of God.

      I asked her about the collage she had made recently and she screwed up her face. Then I suggested the placemat she had made for her dad and she shrugged her shoulders. "Then, what about that lovely bead necklace you made for me? I really love that!"

     "Really?" she asked, her interest mildly peaking. "I don't know mum.." as her voice trailed off.

     "You can tell the class that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' and that your mother really loves that necklace, because it was made with love and has special significance for me."

      I watched my daughter's face as different emotions flickered across it. I didn't like reminding her of a time that was fraught with sadness, but at the same time it was important for her to remember that through God's grace
and healing, she still had her mother with her. I felt a lump forming in my throat and was grateful that time was now well past and we had a future to look forward to.

      I grabbed her hand and squeezed it, cupped her chin with my other hand and smiled into her eyes. "Darling, don't ever forget that you don't have to be good at everything. But God has given you gifts that will awaken and grow inside as you grow older, and He has special gifts for you. Some children will be good at things like art and craft, but you have a special gift that shows His love to others around you. When others are down you know how to pick them up with the way you do things for them, and show them that you care. That bead necklace you made me has so much love in it, that I feel the warmth whenever I wear it. It is a very special gift you gave to me".

      My daughter smiled up at me, her eyes glistening with tears. "Ok, mummy, I'll take your necklace and use that for 'show and tell'".

      The following day I held my breath as the door opened and I heard my daughter calling out to me. I let my breath back out again as I heard her voice call out in a sing-song fashion, and the sounds of her skipping down
the hallway. She'd had a good day and I silently thanked God for His goodness to her.

     "Mum, mum, they didn't laugh at me, they didn't laugh! Some of the girls wanted to come and have a close look at the necklace and told me how glad they were that you are well and that I still have you. The teacher said it was really special too. And there were others who didn't have anything they could show so I told them things about them that were special, just like you told me last night. And you know what mummy? I told them that they are a child of God, just like me!"

THE GUILT BARRIER

10th February, 2007

KATHIE THOMAS

Some time ago an acquaintance had suggested to me that since God was willing to forgive us our sins and wipe the slate clean then perhaps we could live as we liked and ask for forgiveness upon our death. I was quick to admonish him and point out that:

      a. your heart has to be in repentance (God knows if we are sincere), and
      b. that death can come suddenly, leaving no time for thought or prayer.

      Little did I know I would need my own advice some time later. Does God get you like that too? Some months later struggled with a problem. Half of me wanted to be free from it, the other half...well, didn’t want that. I knew I was playing with fire...in fact, with my eternal future.

      The memory of what I had told this person surfaced and I spent considerable time thinking and praying but my heart wasn’t in it. It was elsewhere. How could I have let it happen? Why wasn’t God saving me from this torment? Didn’t He know I wanted to work for Him? How could I have been so weak when I thought I was strong?

      A short time later, while attending church, the pastor’s wife got up to prophesy. I’d not seen this happen before but was sure I’d get a message. I knew that God was watching over me but I had felt that for some reason, I just could not hear Him. I did get a message but not through her. While she was speaking to others, I had a vision.

      I was standing by a door through which a great light was emanating from within, shining around the doorframe. I knocked and tried the door but could not get in. Then the word ‘barrier’ entered my mind. “It was created by you, not by Me,” I heard God say.

      The door opened and I entered in. I could see a silhouette of a figure in the centre of the room but I couldn’t make out the features. The light coming from Him was too bright, like nothing I’d seen before. I held my arm up to my face but not before I noticed others standing close against the walls of the room who could look upon the figure of light. They were smiling. My eyes hurt from the brightness. A voice spoke saying that I could look upon the light if I wanted to.

      Suddenly I was filled with a new knowledge. I couldn’t look at the light in my vision because of the guilt within me. That guilt had been the barrier and the cause of the hurt in my eyes. Oh, how I longed to be rid of that guilt, but how could I, when I didn’t feel really free of those thoughts?

     ‘Weakness of the flesh’ flashed through my mind and once back home I searched my concordance for what I thought to be the right reading. But instead something else stood out - "my strength is made perfect in weakness" (2 Corinthians 12:9). I stepped back placing my hand on my mouth. I felt like I’d been slapped and my eyes filled with tears. I had been weak and through that weakness God was teaching me about His strengths.

    Oh Father, how slow I am to learn! I praise you that I am weak and You are strong. I praise you because you always have time for me, that you teach me many things. That you don’t laugh at me but with me, and that you feel for me when I’m in tears. I understand that Your strength is made perfect in my weakness because it is at that time that I need You most. I was smug enough to think some months ago that nothing would separate us. How wrong I was! Father, forgive me.

A GIFT TO GOD

4th January, 2007

KATHIE THOMAS

“When I go to heaven I’m going to take God a gift.” Melanie stated happily. We were on our way home from a birthday party and this had evidently started Melanie’s train of thought.

     “Do you know the best gift you can give to God?” I asked and when told ‘no’, I answered “Yourself”. I explained what God wanted for each and every one of us in His world. I asked her if she understood and she replied, “Well, when I see Him I’m going to give Him a great big hug and kiss!”

     “He’ll love that darling.” as I smiled broadly at the thought. Melanie, at seven years of age, is such an affectionate, loving child and I know that that is exactly what she would do.

      I reflected on this conversation later and wondered if I would do the same?

      No, I decided. I would probably stare in awe and feel totally inadequate in the face of His beauty and splendour. But wait, didn’t He feel that I was worthy of His love?

      Yes, I decided, Melanie definitely had the right idea. She had not been taught to think this way, it came naturally to her but for those of us past our childhood, we have to learn once again to be childlike in receiving God’s love and His promises as we are told in Mark 10:13-16. And I think that this sometimes means being short in memory too. How much easier it would be to forget some of the things we’ve done just as children easily forget their own shortcomings.

      And the more I thought about it, the more I realised that I, too, would love to give God a gift – a hug and kiss from me, an affirmation of my love for Him. And it took my young daughter to make me even think of it.

FORGING A FAITH

20th July, 2005

JO HOPPING

A few weeks ago while raiding a friend’s coffee table I read an article describing ‘Porch Theology’. Ann Jensen wrote that apparently a bunch of innovative folks are advertising 'Solomon’s Porch Theology' outside Irish pubs in Minneapolis and London, aiming for evenings of robust, civilised discussion regarding the events of our times and how these sit with the Christian faith.

      It’s not the first time this kind of thing has been done - obviously the name draws from the habit of people in Old Testament times who taught and argued and wept in the shelter of the Temple porch, rather than their faith being confined to teaching from the pulpit - and since then the concept would have existed in as many forms as there are pilgrims and faiths, with notable examples being the regular meetings of Lewis, Tolkien and friends at Oxford’s Eagle and Child pub and Francis Schaeffer creating L’Abri in Switzerland, a safe place for people to examine their beliefs.

      Dangerous thoughts, untidy faith and the weight of doubt shouldn’t scare us from continuing our journey. It’s in recognizing that we are powerless and that we can’t contain God that we begin to work at forging what our faith is based on and what God’s nature is like in the messy parts of our life as well as in the good, clean bits.

      Me, I’d love to make it to a porch, sit down with respected friends and a glass of something while the day eases to a close, and get into the debate. Trouble is, God doesn’t often allow me to make it that far. He generally manages to nab me at the clothesline and believe me, with the amount of laundry we produce, there’s plenty of time for him to make his point in a leisurely manner.

      Lots of things get nutted out while pegging the t-shirts out in the sunshine - like how I should apologize to my girls when I’ve behaved exactly as I tell them not to, or that I really should be deliberate about catching up with a friend who’s facing some untidy situations of her own. Sometimes He just graciously uses the space to remind me that he’s still there and that he really means it when he says he cares. Being on acreage, nobody minds if I have a bit of a cry when I’m being reprimanded, or laugh at one of those quirky ideas God seems to come up with. It’s getting to the stage where I hesitate to wander across the deck with the latest damp load, and try to sneak out when the bloke upstairs might not be watching.

      There’s a fair bit of work ahead of me before I reach the finer points of theology. And a few ‘discussions’ left between me, God and those friends who will put up with me long enough to finish a conversation. In the meantime I’m pestering my better half to buy me one of those super-size, long-term warranty clothes dryers.

AN ISSUE OF TRUST

27th June , 2005

JO HOPPING

It’s 5:42am and I’m awake (which these days is in itself a bit of a miracle), propped up under quilt and blanket and wondering if thinking about walking could possibly get me fit. I’ve even gone so far as to open the window for the full effect of the crisp morning air. You see, I’m really there.

      Snuggled in winter fitness attire, I’m striding it out down our driveway, sucking in the freshness of the lemon-scented gums which guard our entry and then it’s off up the hill at a brisk pace. I’ve even been thoughtful enough to dig out the lead and allow our overgrown Shepherd pup to gambol alongside, in front of and beneath me as I pace out the kilometres. The endorphins begin to kick in and I wouldn’t be anywhere else on the planet.

      Except I’m still muffled by half a dozen pillows. Self-image is a pretty powerful thing. I can delude myself into thinking I’m in okay shape until I spend time with one of my many friends who actually get out there. In fact, this girl doesn’t just stroll up the hill of our valley - she gets out and runs for kilometres, apparently every spare minute, with stunning results.

      Physical discipline has been compared to discipline of the spirit. There are plenty of us who’ve got a picture of God and reckon it’s all under control. Especially if we’re pretty nice people - you know - gracious with kids in supermarkets, successful in business, well-known in local parts as a good all-rounder. Knowing about God, however, and really knowing Him are totally different experiences. The guesswork and assumptions we hold while spectators are just a shadow of the real thing. It’s not until we allow ourselves to actually begin to look at who God says He is, and learn to hear His voice directing our plans each day, that our minds begin to be transformed and we begin to see a wider view of our life and the purpose for it.

      From the outside, many people have a perception of the Christian faith as something that’s out of touch with reality or not relevant to an everyday routine. God-in-a-box, pie-in-the-sky, wishful thinking for perfection. Maybe someday. Yet just like it’s probably time for me to stop whinging about being unfit and lazy, it might be time for some of us to stop complaining that we don’t live anything but ordinary lives, and open our eyes to the possibilities God has in store. ‘I know what I’m doing,’ says God, ‘I have it all planned out - plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for. When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I’ll listen. When you come looking for me, you’ll find me. Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else, I’ll make sure you won’t be disappointed.’ (from the Book of Jeremiah, The Message version of the Bible).

      So, how serious are you? It might be time to wake up, get out there and explore.

FEELING SMALL

1st June , 2005

JO HOPPING

Ever feel small? No - not that tower of pencil lines and dates on the door frame. I mean your life, your spirit.

      I was struck while reading Paul’s note to his friends at Corinth: ‘Dear, dear Corinthians. (I don’t think he’s patronizing them here - he just cares a lot.) I can’t tell you how much I long for you to enter this wide-open, spacious life. We didn’t fence you in. The smallness you feel comes from within you. Your lives aren’t small, but you’re living them in a small way. I’m speaking as plainly as I can and with great affection. Open up your lives. Live openly and expansively." (from The Message version of the Bible).

      If life’s so dull and repetitive that you’re going nuts, then the thought of eternal life is probably more like a life-sentence. But what if that eternal life is one that offers room to grow and serve and be appreciated? Right now we only see shadowed glimpses of God’s mind - those moments of discovery and those conversations that leave you bursting with the opportunity to develop your skills; those snatched moments when the dream that has been brewing, half-formulated, in your heart threatens to boil over into you’re here-and-now life.

      Giving control of things to God may appear to be a wimpy option only needed by those weak people who need a crutch to lean on. Nothing could be more distorted. Having the courage to recognize I’m a sinner in need of a Saviour is the best chance I’ll ever have to live expansively, led by the One who designed me, the One who said He knows the plans He has for me, ‘plans for a hope and a future.’