ESSAY: FACING UP TO THE TENSIONS BETWEEN ACKNOWLEDGING FAILURE AND OFFERING FORGIVENESS

23rd August, 2007

RUSSELL STUBBINGS

The recent media expose of Opposition Leader Kevin Rudd and his “error of judgment” highlights the fickle nature of both politics and public opinion. I have been staggered to read and hear that most Australians aren’t bothered by Rudd’s escapades of some four years ago, noting that it makes him seem more like a normal guy. Others say it was four years ago and is no longer relevant or important. Was he not a senior politician at the time? Am I the only one bothered by his behaviour? Have our standards slipped so far that drunken behaviour at a strip club is regarded as normal? If so, I am clearly way out of touch.

"There is a very real tension that exists between acknowledging failures and their consequences, and simply ignoring personal issues based on the 'we all make mistakes' perspective."

And yet, at the same time I am reminded that as a Christian, even as a human being, there is a need to be forgiving and gracious. An attitude that embraces the understanding that all of us as humans are prone to error, none of us are above or beyond personal failings, and as such, there must be a willingness to forgive, a willingness to avoid mere judgmentalism, lest we also be judged as we judge others. There is a very real tension that exists between acknowledging failures and their consequences, and simply ignoring personal issues based on the “we all make mistakes” perspective.

Now to Kevin Rudd. How do we understand and deal with his exploits of some four years ago? While drinking and attending “gentlemen’s clubs” is socially acceptable behaviour in our modern world - at least in some circles, it would seem to me that higher standards should be expected of those who see themselves as fit for public office, in this case, the highest position in the land. Surely, a higher standard must be upheld by those who seek the prestige and honour of elevated status and position? I once heard something along the lines of “higher calling, higher cost” illustrating that for those who desire positions of authority and influence there is a cost which they must choose to accept. For Kevin Rudd, and others who seek political power, surely part of this cost is choosing to live in a way that places them above reproach. This must be incredibly difficult as the life of a politician, celebrity, or even a sportstar becomes public property where no boundary is regarded as sacred.

Even apart from his faith (which makes the responsibility to live with moral and ethical integrity even greater) Rudd, as a politician, needed to diligently live in a way that would not allow mud to be slung. Unfortunately, he has opened himself up to accusations of immorality and unacceptable behaviour which contrasts sharply with his Christian faith, provoking the inevitable charge of hypocrisy so often used against those of us who profess to be Christian.

What are we to make of the presentation delivered by Kevin Rudd via the recent Australian Christian Lobby meeting in Canberra? Obviously the Christian vote is important, especially now with the rise of the Family First party, which although not a Christian political party, has traditionally attracted a fair percentage of the Christian vote. Clearly the Rudd and Howard show was designed to target the Christian voting population. But, have we as Christian voters merely been the victims of a political stunt? I would assume this not to be the case and would tend to err on the side of accepting the sincerity of the presentation. Although, in some ways, I now find it harder to trust anything Kevin Rudd says in order to win my vote as a Christian voter. Why? Because in my mind he has undermined his reputation, distanced himself from the Christian population through his behaviour. At the same time, it would be wrong to allow this to be the only issue which influences my vote at the next election. Important policy matters should prove the basis for voting decisions.

I must admit, though, that as a Christian voter I feel slightly cheated. Had this been John Howard I would feel the same. It is not a matter of feeling this way because of political affiliation, but because this is not the type of behaviour I expect from any leader, let alone one who claims his Christianity openly.

What, then, should we expect from our leaders? Clearly more than this, especially from one who professes to be a Christian. There is a distinct responsibility to practice what one preaches; to set an example; to be above reproach. Am I being unforgiving, showing a distinct lack of grace, being overly judgmental? That is certainly not my intention. I am however exploring the issue, attempting to balance forgiveness and grace against, dare I use the word, sin.

A degree of tension exists between forgiveness and failure, and it is this tension that must be balanced in this case, and throughout life in general. I know that if I fail morally there will be consequences. Trust will be broken, and my actions will overwhelm any words I may have previously spoken. My 12-year-old son knows this. It is a rule of the universe. Our actions have consequences. Yes, as Christians we must forgive and show grace, but we also need to discern right from wrong.

Condemning Kevin Rudd for his behaviour is not an expression of unforgiveness, it is merely a response to behaviour which is in stark contrast to his profession of faith. Forgiveness does not imply ignorance or acceptance of the inappropriate behaviour. There are times where the process of forgiveness must address the transgression in order for growth and learning to take place. No doubt Kevin Rudd has learnt from this error of judgment, and whilst a painful lesson, it may well be one that helps him move forward in a positive way.

A passage in an old book of wisdom now regarded by many as being irrelevant warns against the consequences of inappropriate behaviour resulting from a lack of personal discipline. A guy by the name of Paul wisely wrote: “I discipline my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize”. As a Christian leader, Paul knew that his own behaviour was the measuring stick against which his message would be judged. A lack of discipline, a moral stumble, would result in disqualification and a lack of credibility. His platform would be undermined, and all that he said and did would be discredited. Kevin Rudd would do well to heed this advice. His behaviour has damaged his reputation, and any message he brings will be flavoured by his lack of personal discipline on that night four years ago which he now certainly regrets.

Two final comments are pertinent. Firstly, and importantly, as Jim Wallace so graciously noted, our attitude should be like Jesus, allowing the one without sin to cast the first stone. How do we do this? By being rightly concerned and even aggrieved, but avoiding legalistic judgment. Secondly, this issue can bring positive results by serving as a wake-up call to all politicians. The Australian public needs to send a message to our leaders that their integrity does matter, their actions are important, and we expect more from them. Whether this lack of discipline causes Kevin Rudd to be disqualified from the prize he seeks at the next election only time will tell.


Your Say

Comment left by Anthony
A very well written piece Russell. I think you have struck an excellent balance between the recogition that we all fail and the need to extend grace and forgiveness, but the need also for accountability, integrity and a willingness not to minimize the seriousness of such failures. This is true for all of us but especially true for those who are currently in or aspire to leadership in whatever capacity. As John Maxwell suggests, leadership is influence. And we want all leaders (especially those who profess to be Jesus followers) to lead in a manner that will bless and benefit all.
Comment left by DB
The whole incident left me with a deep sense of sadness. Sadness at Rudd’s actions, yes, but also sadness at the response of some. We all err from time to time and while politicians are leaders - as are pastors, business leaders, etc - they, just like the rest of us, will, at times, sin. There has been no suggestion that Rudd’s behaviour is habitual or repeated - it was a one-off lapse so far as I've heard. He has paid a price for his sin and no doubt will continue to do so - it certainly hasn’t just been shrugged off, even though as Russell says apparently most Australians aren’t bothered by his actions.

Whether I intend voting for Rudd or not, this incident will not change my intention - there are, as Russell has alluded to above, important political issues at stake. I don’t expect Rudd or any other politician to be perfect - there’s bound to be some things in their past they regret (as there are in mine) and Christians aren't immune to this. But it does remind me that I need to be praying for Christians in leadership, particularly in politics, for God to give them strength.

For me, Jim Wallace’s response is worth noting: "Obviously it might affect the perception of him with some people. In reality, we all know that none of us are perfect. I think it's a case of let he who is without sin cast the first stone. We are all fallible. Christianity is about trying to follow the example of Christ and we all fail in that from time to time. That would be our view regardless of which side of politics someone is on."

It is hard to keep that balance between acknowledging the sin and the fact that we all walk in grace and it’s something that we Christians have in the past not been very good at doing. This incident underlines the fact that it’s something we still need to work on.
Comment left by JKR
Thanks Russell for the article.

The natural tendency of many Christian to support conservative politicians before Labor politicians could blur some of our thoughts on this incident.

Rudd did it 4 years ago. It seems to have been a once off slip. The very next day he rang his wife and admitted the error he had made. He did not try to hide his sin. He has not repeated the action. That all adds up to repentance and remorse in my book. And if we cant get over someone's once off slip from years ago, especially when they repent and dont hide their sin, and dont repeat it - then we are being extremely judgmental.

Let's think about the sin. Did he sleep with another woman? Have a fling? An affair? No. But he did sin nonetheless, but in a less consequential way on a human level. Ok... lets think about how we would treat a pastor who did this. Or who sinned more seriously (from the human consequence point of view). If a pastor had a once off affair and in a fit of carnality, slept with another woman, but then immediately repented and admitted to it - what would happen? He would probably be put under mentoring and stepped aside for a set number of years, and watched to see if it recurred or was a once off foolish mistake. But Rudd did not sin to that degree. He went into a strip club. He has had four years since to show what he is really like. We would not hold a once off sin of that level, against someone in ministry in most churches 4 years later, as disbarring the person from ministering again - not if there was immediate repentance, admission, remorse and a changed life evidenced by 4 years of non-repeat behaviour.

I think we need to put this into perspective. As one of our senators said: 4 years ago, Rudd, drunk, went into a strip joint. 4 years ago, Howard, sober, took Australia into Iraq (a war that has killed nearly a million civilians now). Who committed the greater moral failure?

Another thought: Rudd had admitted his sin. He has repented, called himself an idiot, confessed. Howard still justifies the slaughter of civilians. Who is the tax collector and who is the Pharisee in the parable Jesus told here?

If Mr Howard had done the very same thing, I honestly do NOT believe the Christian church would be talking about it for as long. We would talk about it, briefly, and then get over it quickly. We would quickly emphasise grace and forgiveness. After all, Howard is a conservative in the Liberal Party. Conservative Christians dont find fault with conservative politicians actions as quickly as we do the Labor (or other left of center) party members.

My last comment on this: how did it even become known a few months before an election? Who paid whom to dig up the mud and then give it to the Coalition to fling? Going to a strip bar is sin. Yes. But so it pulling down others and undermining fellow Christians for selfish reasons. The way we accept this happening, even between Christian politicians, saddens me too. We accept some sin without a second thought. "That's just what politicians do". Not good enough for Christians politicians, sorry. If Christians in politics need to set a better example by not going to strip bars, they also need to set better examples by not being mud-slinging gossips who undermine each others ministry.
Comment left by James Ferguson
I totally agree with DB and JKR.

Russell's article, while articulate and sincere, follows a wayward line of Christian thinking that goes back to the apostle Peter asking Jesus how many times he must forgive someone who sins against him but then repents. Jesus answer: "Seventy times seven" or we might read "More than you can count."

While he begins by acknowledging Jesus command to "judge not", Russell, like so many others before him, then sets about to all but nullify that command. Jesus words become "Judge not, unless he's a leader" or implicitly "Judge not, unless its a sexual sin" and so on and so on.

There is some legitimate debate over how Christians should respond to those who do not recognize their wrong doing or who refuse to repent since that's not dealt with explicitly. There's also a tenuous line of argument that Russell tries to tap into that says, "Judge not, but that doesn't mean you have to trust them again."

It seems funny to me that even the Christians the world accuses of taking the Bible "too literally" (whatever that means) routinely refuse to take the sermon on the mount literally.

While they throw around words like literalism and fundamentalism, the thing I think most annoys the man in the street most about conservative Christians is their selectivity. Why do we loose all faith in Rudd over one visit to a strip club, proclaim our moral outrage and doubt the genuiness of his faith but treat as non-moral issues the pre-emptive Iraq war, "children overboard", the AWB bribery scandal, and other cases of deceit, warmongering and corruption - issues much more central to good government.

Rudd sinned and immediately repented and hasn't repeated the error since. The Coalition government have been caught in an increasing number of scandals and as their rein has gone on have increasingly refused to apologize or properly investigate and deal with wrongdoing within government.

Of course Rudd has the benefit of being relatively new in the role and not having had the responsibilities of his opponents. Nevertheless it would be a one-eyed commentator indeed who could say Rudd is a moral failure and call the Howard government squeaky clean. Russell pointedly avoids any comparisons in his article which seems strange in a political commentary.

The question here is one of character. Rudd has been blemished but so have his opponents and many of them remain unrepentant. But as Russell notes elections are decided on policy as well as character and much of both remains to be revealed.

jf
Comment left by Jonathon
Is it fair to say that Rudd's actions are sin only in God's eyes? Are we a little above ourselves to think that "we" ought to offer him forgiveness, when he has not wronged anyone but himself and his wife? Possibly, possibly not. If he is a sincere follower of Christ the matter is between him and his Father and immediate brothers and sisters in Christ.
To use words like "repentance" and "forgiveness" in the context of politics seems a little out of place since this is a matter for the world to deal with outside of his personal faith. Personally I do not condemn him because if he is not outspokenly christian (some may say he is but it is not always easy to judge the depth and sincerity of people in the spotlight like this) we cannot subject him to the rules of the Kingdom of heaven.
I think it is only right however in the wordly context to judge him by his actions to determine his probable suitability for what ever position of responsibility he my obtain to, and that grace ought not to be applyed in the worldy context, but that intense scrutiny of evidenced competence and personal character must be applied. The electorate shares as much responsibility for the ultimate state of the nation as the elected members. We get what we deserve.


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